{"id":41606,"date":"2025-10-30T19:24:06","date_gmt":"2025-10-30T19:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/?p=41606"},"modified":"2025-10-30T19:24:06","modified_gmt":"2025-10-30T19:24:06","slug":"why-weekends-keep-wrecking-your-progress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/why-weekends-keep-wrecking-your-progress\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Weekends Keep Wrecking Your Progress (and How to Fix It)"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-simple font-size: 15px\" style=\"font-size:0.5em\">L<\/span>et\u2019s be honest \u2014 the weekend is where most diets go to die.<\/p>\n<p>You crush your weekday routine. You hit your protein goals, pack your lunches, skip the drive-thru, and maybe even hit the gym before work. You\u2019re in control, feeling focused, and watching the scale finally start to move.<\/p>\n<p>Then Friday night rolls around. Suddenly it\u2019s pizza, beers, and snacks that somehow last through Sunday\u2019s football marathon.<\/p>\n<p>Sound familiar? You\u2019re not alone. For most guys over 40, weekends are where progress gets wiped out \u2014 not because of laziness or lack of willpower, but because life looks completely different when the workweek structure disappears.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re spending time with your family, meeting friends, eating out, and relaxing \u2014 all things that should be part of a balanced, enjoyable life. The challenge is figuring out how to do those things <em>without<\/em> losing momentum.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the good news: you don\u2019t need to give up fun, flavor, or freedom to stay consistent. You just need a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/foundations\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">smarter plan<\/a> that fits your life as a busy dad.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"758\" data-end=\"918\">\n<p data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"918\"><strong data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"774\">Promise:<\/strong> In this article I'll help you understand why your weekends are stalling your progress and why consistency is far more important than perfection. I'll also share 7 strategies to help keep you on track while still being able to enjoy your weekends.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"72\"><strong data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"70\">Why a Weekly (Not Just Daily) Calorie Deficit Matters for Fat Loss<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-41613\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo6.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"598\" height=\"397\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo6.png 598w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo6-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo6-350x233.png 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 598px) 100vw, 598px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to fat loss, most people focus on hitting a specific calorie goal every single day. You track your meals, stay \u201con plan\u201d Monday through Friday, and expect the scale to reward you. But then the weekend happens \u2014 a dinner out here, a few drinks there \u2014 and somehow, your progress stalls.<\/p>\n<p>The reason? Fat loss depends on your <em data-start=\"411\" data-end=\"419\">weekly<\/em> calorie balance, not just your daily targets.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Fat Loss Is About the Bigger Picture<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Your body doesn\u2019t reset at midnight. It runs on trends, not single days. What determines whether you lose or gain fat is the <em data-start=\"637\" data-end=\"649\">cumulative<\/em> energy balance \u2014 how many calories you consume versus how many you burn over time.<\/p>\n<p>For example, say your maintenance calories are 2,000 per day, and you eat 1,700 calories Monday through Friday. That\u2019s a 1,500-calorie deficit across the week. But if you \u201crelax\u201d on Saturday and Sunday with 2,500 calories each day, that adds 1,000 extra calories \u2014 wiping out your entire weekly deficit (and then some).<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t \u201cmess up\u201d one day; you simply balanced out your deficit across the week. That\u2019s why the scale doesn\u2019t move, even when you feel like you\u2019ve been \u201cgood\u201d most of the time. It's incredibly frustrating I know, but there are plenty of things you can do to help avoid this trap.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Try a Weekly Approach Instead of Daily<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41614\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo7.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo7-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo7-350x233.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1286\" data-end=\"1449\">Focusing on your weekly calorie intake gives you more flexibility and accuracy. Instead of obsessing over every single day, you can plan your week strategically:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"1450\" data-end=\"1789\">\n<li data-start=\"1450\" data-end=\"1550\">\n<p data-start=\"1452\" data-end=\"1550\"><strong data-start=\"1452\" data-end=\"1470\">Bank calories:<\/strong> Eat a little less during the week if you know you\u2019ll eat more on the weekend.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1551\" data-end=\"1678\">\n<p data-start=\"1553\" data-end=\"1678\"><strong data-start=\"1553\" data-end=\"1581\">Smooth out fluctuations:<\/strong> Some days you\u2019ll be hungrier \u2014 that\u2019s okay. What matters is how your <em data-start=\"1651\" data-end=\"1667\">average intake<\/em> adds up.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1679\" data-end=\"1789\">\n<p data-start=\"1681\" data-end=\"1789\"><strong data-start=\"1681\" data-end=\"1698\">Reduce guilt:<\/strong> One higher-calorie day doesn\u2019t erase progress if your weekly average stays in a deficit.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4 data-start=\"1791\" data-end=\"1812\"><strong>How to Apply It<\/strong><\/h4>\n<ul data-start=\"1813\" data-end=\"2249\">\n<li data-start=\"1813\" data-end=\"1924\">\n<p data-start=\"1816\" data-end=\"1924\"><strong data-start=\"1816\" data-end=\"1851\">Know your maintenance calories.<\/strong> Use a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/how-many-calories-do-i-burn-a-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">calculator<\/a> or track your weight and food intake for a few weeks. Remember, tracking calories is only effective if you know how many you should be eating for your specific goals.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1925\" data-end=\"2012\">\n<p data-start=\"1928\" data-end=\"2012\"><strong data-start=\"1928\" data-end=\"1957\">Set a reasonable deficit.<\/strong> Aim to eat 10\u201320% below maintenance across the week.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2013\" data-end=\"2126\">\n<p data-start=\"2016\" data-end=\"2126\"><strong data-start=\"2016\" data-end=\"2042\">Track weekly averages.<\/strong> Use an app or spreadsheet to monitor total weekly intake, not just daily numbers.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2127\" data-end=\"2249\">\n<p data-start=\"2130\" data-end=\"2249\"><strong data-start=\"2130\" data-end=\"2155\">Adjust for real life.<\/strong> If you know you have social events or family meals coming up, plan lighter days beforehand.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>7 Simple Ways to Make Progress AND Enjoy Your Weekends<\/h2>\n<h4><strong>1. Plan Flexibility \u2014 Not Perfection<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>One of the biggest mistakes guys make is trying to be perfect during the week and then \u201crewarding\u201d themselves on the weekend. That all-or-nothing mindset almost always backfires.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to eat chicken and broccoli while your family\u2019s at the pizza place, but you also don\u2019t need to go full \u201ccheat weekend.\u201d The trick is to plan your flexibility.<\/p>\n<p>If you know Friday night is family pizza night, make breakfast and lunch <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/daily-protein-intake\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">higher in protein<\/a> and lower in carbs. You\u2019ll balance your calories and still enjoy dinner without guilt.<\/p>\n<p>Think of it like budgeting. You can spend a little more in one area as long as you save somewhere else.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"758\" data-end=\"918\">\n<p data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"918\"><strong data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"774\">Dad Hack:<\/strong> Pick one \u201cnon-negotiable healthy meal\u201d each weekend.<br \/>\nMaybe it\u2019s your Saturday morning eggs and oatmeal or Sunday\u2019s grilled lunch. That single anchor meal keeps you grounded, even when the rest of the day is unpredictable.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Planning a bit of flexibility allows you to enjoy real life <em>and<\/em> stay consistent \u2014 which is exactly what you want.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>2. Don\u2019t Wipe Out a Week of Progress in Two Days<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This one stings a bit, but it\u2019s important.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you\u2019ve been working hard all week. You\u2019re tracking calories, hitting your protein goals, and staying in a solid calorie deficit. You feel great and start seeing progress. Then Saturday rolls around, and you loosen the reins. A few beers, some pizza, maybe dessert \u2014 nothing crazy, right?<\/p>\n<p>The problem is, those \u201cfew\u201d indulgences can easily wipe out the entire calorie deficit you built during the week.<\/p>\n<p>A single weekend of overeating can erase five days of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/mindset-motivation-discipline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">discipline<\/a>. That\u2019s not an exaggeration \u2014 it\u2019s simple math. If you eat 500 fewer calories than you burn Monday through Friday, you\u2019re down 2,500 calories for the week. But if you eat 1,500 extra on Saturday and Sunday, you\u2019re right back to zero.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t deserve to enjoy yourself \u2014 you absolutely do. But you have to be aware that <strong>consistency, not intensity, drives progress<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You can eat 100% clean Monday through Friday, but if you consistently go off the rails every weekend, you\u2019ll just spin your wheels and struggle to lose weight.<\/p>\n<p>You can absolutely still enjoy your weekend \u2014 just do it smarter.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>3. Use the 80\/20 Rule (the Right Way)<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard of the 80\/20 rule: eat healthy 80% of the time, and allow yourself some flexibility 20% of the time. It\u2019s a great principle \u2014 <em>when used correctly<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how most guys <em>don\u2019t<\/em> use it correctly:<br \/>\nThey\u2019re strict all week, then treat the entire weekend as the 20%. That\u2019s not 80\/20 \u2014 that\u2019s closer to 50\/50!<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the real math: if you eat around 30 meals per week, you can have six of them be \u201cflexible\u201d without hurting your progress. That means you can enjoy Friday takeout or Sunday brunch and still stay on track \u2014 as long as the rest of your meals are solid.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"758\" data-end=\"918\">\n<p data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"918\"><strong data-start=\"760\" data-end=\"774\">Dad Hack:<\/strong>\u00a0Make your 20% meals <em>intentional<\/em>.<br \/>\nPlan them, enjoy them, and then move on. What you want to avoid is \u201caccidental overeating\u201d \u2014 where one unplanned splurge snowballs into an entire weekend of poor choices.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h4><strong>4. Upgrade Your Weekend Favorites<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41615\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/close-up-grill-with-food-cooking-it-summer-barbecue_36682-213410.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"626\" height=\"351\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/close-up-grill-with-food-cooking-it-summer-barbecue_36682-213410.jpg 626w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/close-up-grill-with-food-cooking-it-summer-barbecue_36682-213410-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/close-up-grill-with-food-cooking-it-summer-barbecue_36682-213410-600x336.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 626px) 100vw, 626px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to give up flavor to eat better on weekends. You just need to make small swaps that deliver big results.<\/p>\n<p>Try these easy upgrades that taste great and keep you feeling good:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Grill leaner cuts of meat. Chicken thighs, pork tenderloin, and 93% lean ground beef are flavorful and lower in calories.<\/li>\n<li>Swap chips for air-fried potatoes or roasted veggies. You\u2019ll still get the crunch without the grease.<\/li>\n<li>Use Greek yogurt instead of sour cream. Same texture, more protein, fewer calories.<\/li>\n<li>Try high-protein snacks and desserts. Greek yogurt parfaits, protein ice cream, or high-protein wraps are solid choices.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Little tweaks like these help you enjoy your favorites without sabotaging your progress.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>5. Handle Alcohol Without Derailing Your Progress<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41610\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"612\" height=\"409\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo3.jpg 612w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo3-600x401.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/photo3-350x233.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here's the big one for most dads &#8211; alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s football season, the guys are over, the grill is fired up, and the beers are flowing. Nothing wrong with that \u2014 as long as it doesn\u2019t become a calorie bomb that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ze6BO_zDofY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wrecks your progress<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The reality is, alcohol packs more calories than most guys realize. A few beers and a handful of snacks can easily top 1,000 calories before you\u2019ve even thought about dinner. On top of that, drinking lowers your inhibitions, making it easier to overeat.<\/p>\n<p>And let\u2019s not forget the hidden damage: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/dr-peter-martone-on-how-to-sleep-well\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">poor sleep<\/a>, low recovery, and sluggish testosterone production. All of that adds up \u2014 especially after 40, when your metabolism and recovery aren\u2019t what they used to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s how to drink smarter without giving up your social life:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Set a limit. Two drinks per night is a solid rule of thumb.<\/li>\n<li>Choose lighter options. Light beer, tequila with soda water, or whiskey on ice beat sugary cocktails every time.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/hydration-and-weight-loss-whats-the-link\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hydrate between drinks<\/a>. Alternate every drink with a full glass of water.<\/li>\n<li>Eat before you drink. A protein-based meal keeps blood sugar stable and curbs late-night cravings.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to swear off alcohol \u2014 just be intentional. You\u2019ll enjoy it more, recover faster, and wake up Monday feeling like a new man instead of a zombie.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>6. Turn Sunday Into Your Reset Day<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>For a lot of dads, Sunday becomes a \u201clast chance\u201d to indulge before Monday hits. But that mentality keeps you stuck in the cycle of starting over every week.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, use Sunday as your reset day \u2014 the day that sets the tone for the week ahead.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s what that looks like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Get outside with your family for a walk or light workout.<\/li>\n<li>Prep one or two easy, protein-rich meals for Monday.<\/li>\n<li>Eat a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/perfect-plate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">balanced dinner<\/a> with lean protein, veggies, and some carbs.<\/li>\n<li>Go to bed on time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This small shift can completely change your week. Instead of waking up Monday bloated and sluggish, you\u2019ll feel focused and ready to go.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mindset Shift:<\/strong> Stop thinking of Sunday as the end of your weekend. Start seeing it as the beginning of your week.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>7. Consistency Beats Perfection Every Time<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41611\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1-768x384.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1-600x300.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/jkhgvfcd-1024x512-1-752x376.jpg 752w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The truth is, your kids don\u2019t need to see you eating perfectly \u2014 they need to see you being consistent.<\/p>\n<p>The goal isn\u2019t to live on salads and grilled chicken; it\u2019s to make better choices more often and model balance.<\/p>\n<p>One \u201coff\u201d meal doesn\u2019t ruin your progress \u2014 but letting it turn into an \u201coff\u201d weekend will. The goal isn\u2019t to avoid fun, it\u2019s to avoid extremes.<\/p>\n<p>At 40 and beyond, your metabolism slows down, your recovery takes longer, and your energy matters more. But that doesn\u2019t mean your best days are behind you. It means you need to focus on what <em>actually works<\/em> \u2014 building sustainable habits and leading by example.<\/p>\n<p>Because your kids don\u2019t care what your body fat percentage is \u2014 they care that you\u2019re showing up with energy, confidence, and consistency.<\/p>\n<h2>Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Plan your flexibility \u2014 not perfection.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t erase a week of progress in two days.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Use the 80\/20 rule the right way.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Upgrade your weekend meals.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Drink smarter, not harder.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Make Sunday your reset day.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Focus on progress, not perfection.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>The Bottom Line<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t need a new diet \u2014 you need a weekend strategy that fits your real life.<\/p>\n<p>When you plan ahead, keep your anchor meals, drink smarter, and ditch the all-or-nothing mindset, weekends stop being your enemy. They become part of your progress.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll wake up Monday feeling better, not worse. Your energy will stay high, your confidence will grow, and your family will notice the difference.<\/p>\n<p>Because the healthiest thing you can do as a dad isn\u2019t just eat clean \u2014 it\u2019s lead by example.<\/p>\n<p>Helping busy dads like you navigate the world of health and fitness is what we do every single day inside the Fit Father Program. Our proven <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/foundations\">6-week program<\/a> gives you the simple meal system, workouts, and accountability to finally get results that last like the members below.<\/p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/foundations\" class=\"su-button su-button-style-default\" style=\"color:#FFFFFF;background-color:#2D89EF;border-color:#246ec0;border-radius:14px\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color:#FFFFFF;padding:0px 34px;font-size:25px;line-height:50px;border-color:#6cadf4;border-radius:14px;text-shadow:none\"> Click Here To Learn More About Fit Father Foundations<\/span><\/a>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-30971\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-1024x256.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-1024x256.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-300x75.png 300w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-768x192.png 768w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-600x150.png 600w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2-752x188.png 752w, https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/osm-new-beforeAfter2.png 1070w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n  \n  <div class=\"bottom-box author-box-wrap auth29\">\n    <div class=\"author-info\">\n        \n    <div class=\"author-img\"><div class=\"a-thumb\"><img data-del=\"avatar\" src='https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/profile-150x150.jpg' class='avatar pp-user-avatar avatar-150 photo ' height='150' width='150'\/><\/div><\/div>\n        \n    <div class=\"author-details\">\n        <h3>Steve Roy, NASM CPT, <span class=\"ajob\">Certified Personal Trainer @ Fit Father Project<\/span><\/h3>\n   <h3><\/h3>\n      <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    \n      <div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n    <div class=\"author-desc\"><p>Steve is a single father to two amazing daughters, has been involved in the fitness industry for more than 28 years, and joined the Fit Father Project team in 2023.<\/p>\n<p>Growing up as the prototypical \u201c98-pound weakling\u201d, my goal from an early age was to get bigger and stronger.<\/p>\n<p>This process ignited my passion for health and fitness and I got my first personal training certification in 1997 and started working for a local gym. I spent the next 10 years traveling the country, working in gyms, health clubs, resorts, and hotels trying to be the best trainer and coach I could be and learning from some great mentors.<\/p>\n<p>It's been an amazing journey and at 54 years old, I feel better than I did 20 years ago and it all comes down to making fitness a priority. This is a principle I live by and teach every single day.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n  \n\n<p>*Please know that weight loss results and health changes\/improvements vary individually; you may not achieve similar results. Always consult with your doctor before making health decisions. This is not medical advice &#8211; simply very well-researched information on building muscle, nutrition, and sustainable fitness habits.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div style=\"display:none;\" class=\"postcatlist\"><a href='https:\/\/www.fitfatherproject.com\/tag\/weight-loss\/'><span>Weight Loss<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Weekends wrecking your progress? 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